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Seems like the perfect day to ask: Muricans, what's your dream country to expatriate to? Non-Muricans, what's the thought on accepting US refugees?

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  • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

    Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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    onewomancreamteam@sh.itjust.works
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    #151

    Honestly the Netherlands seems pretty great.

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    • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

      Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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      I was going to say Italy but they seem to be going fash again so... north sentinel island?

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      • goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zoneG goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone

        Germany here, only the smart once please. Dont need the idiots. Already got enought here

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        tipring@lemmy.world
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        Germany has been on my list of places to flee to if the fascists here start rounding up LGBT folks. I have lapsed fluency from when I lived there 30 years ago but I am confident it would come back quickly. The problem is that my husband doesn't speak any German at all and I think it would be a culture shock for him.

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        • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

          Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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          norin@lemmy.world
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          Kenya. I have friends there, which would help.

          I’d definitely be the obvious foreigner, given that I’m pale and ginger, but that’s worked in my favor when traveling before.

          I’m also supposing here that there wouldn’t be quite so many other American expats to compete with.

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          • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

            Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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            kazel@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            #155

            No need for muricans here

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            • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

              Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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              bruncvik@lemmy.world
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              Don't come to Ireland. I've lived in the US for nearly two decades, made lots of friends and even helped some to immigrate here. The harsh reality is, however, that we're going through a really bad housing crisis, with our own homeless numbers growing every month, and house prices and rents exploding (a recent statistic showed that our growth in rents is four times the EU average). So, please, for our sake and yours, try a different country.

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              • L lemmyknow@lemmy.today

                Mexico == cartels????!?!!!?!??

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                bonus_crab@lemmy.world
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                the cartels hold massive influence over the govt, straight up killing their legislators in significant numbers at times.

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                • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS sterile_technique@lemmy.world

                  Please go into lots of detail - some of us are taking notes!

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                  razzazzika@lemmy.zip
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                  Germany. I might be able to claim ancestry rights. Ironic that my great grandmother fled fascism in Germany but I'd flee America to return to the motherland.

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                  • U underwaterbob@sh.itjust.works

                    Korea is facing a huge population crisis in the not-so-distant future. They already have ties to the U.S., too.

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                    thebeege@lemmy.world
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                    Had to scroll too far to find Korea.

                    Been here since 2016. It can be tough finding a job at a not shitty company, but once you do, it's pretty sweet.

                    But if you're in your 20s and dating, be prepared for all the bullshit. It gets better in your 30s, though there are still customs you need to figure out.

                    Housing is expensive in Seoul, and real estate agents may scam you, so find a Korean friend.

                    Otherwise, it's great. People are nice to foreigners. Public transit in Seoul and most of the country is amazing. Everything is super convenient. You can get away without learning the language, but at least try to get to a basic level. The foreigner community is pretty cool. Healthcare is excellent. I love it here.

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                    • fryd@sh.itjust.worksF fryd@sh.itjust.works

                      I always wanted to live in a country that was totally different from America when I was a kid. I thought either India, China, or Japan back then, but now I’m not sure I’d want to live in any of them right now.

                      I guess I could go to nearby countries that don’t have global headlines like them say like Bangladesh, Thailand, or Indonesia, but I don’t really know anything about them.

                      I think the smart option would be somewhere in Europe, but I kinda want to get away or at least take a break from “western” culture.

                      I guess I can’t name a dream country, but somewhere with a totally different culture. I’d also want it to have a bunch of ruins and historical sites to visit. I’ve never seen anything older than like 150 years in person.

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                      slvrdrgn@lemmy.world
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                      Where do you live in America? The northeast has cities with things/buildings older than the birth of America (pre-1776) if you want to visit.

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                      • blujan@sopuli.xyzB blujan@sopuli.xyz

                        The kind of american that usually comes to Mexico is very nice, very welcome. Maybe the exceptions are the very loud and self absorbed ones that go to resort locations and act like they're better than everyone there.

                        As long as people want to integrate and cooperate they are more than welcome.

                        Now, the sad part is the gentrification that comes with a lot of people moving and outpaying rent vs the locals. Now the average cost of living in Mexico city is about 50% higher than the average salary, and about 100% higher than the median salary. Another very negative thing is that now a lot of locals have to communicate in english because American people will come and not learn spanish over multiple years living here. There are zones where everything is in english now. It's okay speaking english, it's not okay expecting english from everyone.

                        So a few pointers:

                        1. Integrate, pay taxes, consume locally
                        2. Try and move into already gentrified places, avoid displacing more people
                        3. Push for social policy, increased affordable living spaces, invest in the country where you move into to improve the locals' life

                        Be friendly, but that's always

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                        timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                        La ciudad de México is what I've been thinking of. seems like a fabulous place. doubt I could take the heat and I'm more likely to end up in Asia, but Mexico City and Toronto are top contenders

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                        • bebopalouie@lemmy.caB bebopalouie@lemmy.ca

                          Why is the difference between immigrant and ex patriot?

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                          timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                          silly responses here... the actual difference is permanence. immigration is relocating your life. expatriating is an extended vacation. it has the white guy connotation because white people usually stay temporarily, they dont immigrate for life.

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                          • M mrodri89@lemmy.zip

                            I don’t want to start over. I’d rather die.

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                            timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                            you're lucky you're not in love with an immigrant then

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                            • D deathbybigsad@sh.itjust.works

                              I googled a bit, my best bet is Canada.

                              Large population of the Chinese diaspora, so I don't feel too much like a minority (I am Chinese American).

                              The other choice is Australia.

                              EU is great, but since the UK isn't in EU anymore, I'd have to chose a non-English country, meaning, I'd have to learn another language. My brain can't handle that. Already have 3 spoken and 2 written languages stuck in my head (mostly dormant, haven't used some those languages for a while), I think my brain will explode if I try to learn more. Population of the Chinese diaspora is too small. So I'd also feel alone, because like... Imagine living in a place where nobody looks like you. Like a Black American kid in the deep south of the US and all your classmates are white, that's how it feels basically. As for the UK, I wouldn't need to learn another language, but UK just had a xenophobic riot in 2024, doesn't seem too friendly in my opinion. If the UK was in EU, I could just pack up and to go another EU country if Shit Hits the Fan, its what I like about the EU, options. But too bad UK isn't in EU...

                              There is also Singapore, which has like over 70% ethnic Chinese, and the official languages include English and Mandarin, which I already know.

                              Not technically "dream countries", but the most realistic countries that would be livable for me. Because I doubt I can speak Norweigian or Finnish. (Even tho I would love those countries)

                              TLDR: As a Chinese American, Canada as first choice, Australia as second place. Then probably Sinapore.

                              (Sorry if I'm rambling, can't express it coherently since ICE raids are on my mind)

                              Edit: I would probably also say Taiwan as an option, well... other than the fact that they are constantly on the verge of getting invaded, and I am not fond of the CCP.

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                              timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                              Singapore seems a smart choice. Seems like a great city from everyone I've met from there. The general English proficiency is excellent as well.

                              Whatever you do, avoid Europe. The anti-Asian racism in most of Europe is far more grave than it is in the Americas. and Australia, ok, you'll have more Chinese community, but it's probably the biggest cesspool of anti-Asian racism on the planet

                              You might also look into what Chinese populations are in South America. you might like it there.

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                              • T timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com

                                La ciudad de México is what I've been thinking of. seems like a fabulous place. doubt I could take the heat and I'm more likely to end up in Asia, but Mexico City and Toronto are top contenders

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                                Luckily mexico city is not actually that hot, quite humid though

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                                • blujan@sopuli.xyzB blujan@sopuli.xyz

                                  Luckily mexico city is not actually that hot, quite humid though

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                                  timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                                  yeah I'd prefer -30 over +30 and humid

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                                  • T timeworntraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com

                                    yeah I'd prefer -30 over +30 and humid

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                                    Now the good thing with humidity is that refrigeration works wonders, and in Mexico Mini Splits are super cheap, as is electricity

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                                    • onewomancreamteam@sh.itjust.worksO onewomancreamteam@sh.itjust.works

                                      Honestly the Netherlands seems pretty great.

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                                      pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                                      How's the food?

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                                      • rickyrigatoni@retrolemmy.comR rickyrigatoni@retrolemmy.com

                                        I was going to say Italy but they seem to be going fash again so... north sentinel island?

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                                        deathbybigsad@sh.itjust.works
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                                        North Sentinel Island is willing to welcome you with a gift of their finest bow and arrow show 🤗

                                        (Serious tho, please don't disturb uncontacted tribes)

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                                        • B bonus_crab@lemmy.world

                                          Californian - i want us, oregon, and washington to join canada.

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                                          It would be a dream if CANZUK happened, then it was joined by California and Cascadia. We could call it CACACANZUK.

                                          That said, you would already be a powerful nation without joining anyone else. Don't wait for us to get organised.

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